Maliia's Theories on Post Cum Motivation

You know I love talking about sex and yes I am very open about my own sexuality and what I think about things and that's good for everyone. I'm just not the kind of girl who likes to play coy or shy and pretend that I'm a good little girl because as we all know, I pretty much revel in the idea of being a slut. Not just any kind of slut mind you, after all there are many kinds ranging from the good girl who wants to tease to a common street whore. I on the other hand probably fall somewhere in the middle in that I love sex, I love creative, interesting things, but I do have my limits and I don't mind drawing a line sometimes. The other distinction that I have to make is the fact that I am a bondage slut (or bondage whore if you prefer) in that although I don't always incorporate bondage play into my sexual activities, nor do I have to, I do enjoy doing that quite a bit and I especially love to be surprised and shocked by creativity that really blows my mind and makes me think wow, I never would have thought of that. What is that you ask? Well, I don't know, if I did it probably wouldn't be as big of a surprise but it's kind of like how the government approaches pornography. Maybe you can't define it, but you know it when you see it.I really enjoyed talking about cum the other day and I got a great response from people, mostly guys, who were happy to share their own thoughts on it and I thought that was terrific.

The subject of cum is a big one of course and really it's what all of this sexual fun comes down to. For guys of course it's the sticky stuff that usually ends up on my face or in my pussy or mouth, and for girls it's a little different and in my case can often end up as something that runs down my smooth firm brown legs leaving faint white streaks. Of course the nice thing about having dried pussy juice on your legs (or even dried cum on your face) is that if you are in public like that, it's really not something most people will suspect right away and even if they do, they'll probably be too embarrassed themselves to just come up to you and say "excuse me miss, but is that dried cum on your face and pussy juice on your leg"? So as a result, it's really not that embarrassing to go out like that usually. A little dirty feeling, sure, but sometimes when I'm out and wearing a skirt and no panties (and I do try to avoid panties whenever possible) and I get excited, well, things just happen.

I'm trying to get to a point here which is about cum and more specifically about orgasms. We all know many women including myself are able to experience multiple orgasms. You have one, you're not done, you keep going and maybe you'll have another and perhaps another after that. We don't exactly need time to recharge you know? So just because we cum, we keep going with the sex and it's pretty easy generally for us to want to maintain our interest in it. Don't get me wrong, there are times when it's enough already and you just want to get some sleep or you're just getting worn out, but at least for me it takes a while to get to that point and until I'm there, I'm pretty much as open minded and willing to try and do things as I was when I started no matter how many orgasms I've had to that point.

Well that brings us to the cruel joke of nature that can only be described as the male orgasm. See, the other day someone brought what can be a very serious problem for a submissive up to me but certainly I think it's a problem for the entire male gender. A guy will do anything before he cums. Seriously, I can talk a guy into almost anything until that point. Fuck you in the ass? Sure, no problem. Chain you up? Take you out in public dressed like a sissy little bitch? Why not! Or more directly to the issue that most women face; lick my pussy until I orgasm at least three times. Fine, they think, they'll agree if it gets them closer to their own orgasm. The thing is gang, the second the male cums, in that split second when the boys fly out of the hole and the one eyed monster throws up its yogurt, all desire and interest flies out with it. In the split second before, a guy would be willing to do almost anything but a nanosecond afterwards, forget about it.

The guy I was talking to said his problem was that his Mistress would order him to eat his cum, and he didn't want to do it. The problem as I pointed it out was once he came, he lost interest so while he would have gladly done it before he came, after, forget about it. That's tough though because until you cum, there is no cum to eat. You may recall I had this same problem a few weeks ago with the guy who bought me the locking dildo/plug harness and I made him my bondage bitch and fucked his ass. This guy wanted to be my bitch and he would obey my every command. He had me fucking his ass for Christ sakes but the second he came that was it. Time had run out in the fourth quarter and he was ready to leave the stadium. I had to threaten him just to get him to come back and lick his sticky mess off my hardwood floor!

So that's just the way it is, guys just aren't as interested after as before. I know some of you guys out there are probably thinking that doesn't apply to you and you would be just as interested after and okay, some of you might be but let's be honest, there are a lot of things a guy will say to a girl, and even to himself before he cums. It's like dealing with two different people and just like with multiple personality disorder, one personality may be aware of the other in vague terms but they aren't intimately aware of what the other is doing. So when a guy is in pre-cum mode, maybe he forgets what it feels like to be post cum and lose interest so he has this belief that he's different and he'll act differently post cum. Let's face it though, if 90% of the guys out there lose interest post cum, you may be the exception, but statistically speaking, you probably aren't.

I don't think we girls can really change this either. Hey, this is just they way you guys are. You saw, you came and you went. Instead I think girls need to take a creative approach to dealing with the issue. In my case, I think the best way is to squeeze as much as I can out before the guy cums. I figure I better get in as many orgasms as I can before he pops his juice because afterwards it probably won't happen until he recharges. Likewise the Mistress of the guy who left me a note was also creative. She made her submissive cum in a glass, then gave him time to recharge, then when he started to get crazy again she made him eat the cum from the first time. Since he was worked up again, he was willing to do it whereas in the few minutes right after, he wouldn't have been too excited about that.
Of course he did have a question about whether cum tastes better when it's warm or if temperature doesn't matter. To be honest, most of the cum I've ever swallowed was warm and even cum that I've licked up was fairly fresh and hasn't had much time to really cool. It's not like the guy cums on my tits and I let it sit there for an hour and then go back and scoop it up with my fingers and eat it. If I'm going to eat it, it's in the first few seconds so I can't answer the cold question but if anyone has any insights into whether cum tastes better warm versus cold, I'd love to hear it.Anyway so those are my insights in the whole male and a little bit of the female cum motivational sexuality picture. I know this isn't exactly new information but I like talking about it and who better to hear it from than a little oriental bondage whore, right?