Maliia's Dressup Choice for Halloween? Lame Girl!

I had a lot of great responses to my question about what to go as for Halloween and it really brought up some great points that I wanted to thank you for. One of the biggest points that really struck me was the fact that here was I was trying to figure out how to dress as a slut, except that's what I always do. Halloween is an opportunity for people to step out of themselves and be what they're not or at least to be a fantasy that they can easily dismiss as just a Halloween costume if they ever got pressed on it. It was brought up many times that naughty schoolgirls, nurses and even dominatrixes to a degree are way overdone on Halloween because its a chance for girls who may be a little naughty on the inside, to show it off on the outside without any reprecussions. Ordinarily if I dress like that I stand out because I do it on occasions in which most girls aren't trying to be slutty. The conclusion was that if I dressed like that for Halloween, I would basically be running with the crowd which I hate to do because I like for my cute little brown body to stand out and be noticed, and the only way to do that in that case would be to out slut the sluts which would be a challenge.

Of the suggestions I put up, that left puppygirl and ponygirl. I liked them both and they definately had a lot of sexual overtones to them and to be honest, I was leaning towards ponygirl although having a bit in my mouth would make it a little difficult to drink anything but that's just how things go I guess. Some of the comments though made the observation that I'm a total slut and bondage whore the other 364 days of the year. If Halloween is meant to be a chance to dress up as something that you're not, at least on the outside usually then wouldn't it be a great chance for me to go in the opposite direction with it and go totally conservative. Not to say it couldn't be done in a sexy way. Some suggestions were the librarian with the glasses, hair in the bun but tight conservative clothes that show a little off of my body. Other ideas of the conservative ran along these lines as well.

What I ultimately ended up doing was something that I am very ashamed of and dissapointed by. I've always had a total lack of respect for the person on Halloween who basically dresses up as him/herself. It's not much of a stretch and you're not really being something different. That's one of the reasons that me dressing up as a slut or bondage animal, while it could be sexy and maybe even unique, isn't really a stretch for me. It's kind of like a guy who's a doctor dressing up for Halloween as a doctor, or a cheerleader who dresses up as a cheerleader. It's not that original. Sure, if you didn't know that person was a doctor or cheerleader, you might be impressed by how authentic not only their costume is but their ability to play the role as well.

I was really hoping to break out of that mold of what I am I guess because I always have the most fun when I do. The best idea I had was to mix the conservative with the fetish and go as a latex/rubber nun or something. Unfortunately, I didn't feel I had the right accessories for it and let's face it, a latex nun outfit is pretty expensive and it didn't make sense to get one at this time and besides, its hard for me to find my size in that sort of thing anyway, especially at the last minute.

So what did I end up doing? Seriously, it's a letdown. One person made a suggeston that I get a pareau which is a Hawaiian cloth that can be tied a number of different ways and basically go as a Hawaiian girl. That's a stretch for me. It's kind of a weak take on going as a hula girl, except in my case, I really was a hula girl. Lame huh? Well, I have a few pareaus and I was running out of time and ideas so I tied the pareau so it just covered my lower body and left my boobs exposed. My hair is long enough that it can cover my nipples so I did my hair so it hung over my boobs but I had to put some tape on my nipples to hide them just in case my hair got brushed aside (which it did on many occasions) because this wasn't the kind of place where you could have public nudity. You can come close, but you just can't go over that line. Anyway, I made a lei and did some other things and sure I got a lot of compliments about my outfit and everyone said I was the cutest little Hawaiian girl but I still felt like it was lame. Oh well. I think the key for next year is going to be to plan ahead this time and try to remember the lessons I've learned from this year. Not to try and outslut the sluts, not to leave it to the last minute and definately not to be something that I already am but instead to be something very different from what I usually am.

So that's my Halloween story. Don't get me wrong, I had a great time and I hope you had fun for your Halloween too! Now I just need to figure out whether I'm feeling dominant so I'll dress more dominatrix like or submissive and I'll dress more like a submissive for the bondage party I'll go to tommorow night. See, these kinds of issues never end! Maybe I should just dress like a little latex bondage whore and let the other people there and my mood decide whether I'm a cruel Asian dominatrix or a cute little oriental slave toy on a leash. Hey, it's good to be flexible right?