I'm Hot When I'm Wet, and Cold When I'm not!

You know I have made a lot of friends from all over the place and while I communicate with most through email, I also sometimes have great telephone conversations with them. From time to time I get an invitation to go visit them, sometimes from a new friend so obviously in that situation it's probably a little early to be planning any trips, and sometimes it's from someone I've known for a while. I get a lot of comments like "if you're ever in my town, let's hang out" or something like that.

Strangely a lot of the people live in cold places though. I'm not a big fan of cold weather at all and the only redeeming feature of it seems to be the fact that you can wear some serious rubber fetish outfits without getting as hot. Frankly, I think if I were going to live in a cold place or even a really rainy place like Seattle, wearing a rubber catsuit would probably be the most appropriate thing. Sure, it might look a little strange as I walk down the street and people might think it's a bit odd, but not only will it keep me toasty warm but my outfit will laugh at the moisture. Throw in a rubber hood with only openings for my eyes, nose holes and mouth and the frizzies I get in my hair when there's a lot of moisture are a worry of the past. Of course I've never really cared for hoods and masks because quite frankly, I find it more humiliating when people can see my face and also see my facial expressions as I endure my degradation, bondage, pain or hopefully pleasure.

I was on the phone with a girl last night who lives in New Hampshire. I've never been there but I hear it's quite lovely when it's not covered in 600 feet of snow. Anyway, she's submissive and keeps trying to get me to come all the way out there to dominate her. Yes, it's true that I am mostly a submissive little bitch, but it seems as though some people are willing to overlook that fact. Maybe it's my hot little Asian body or maybe it's because I actually am a pretty damn good switch if I do say so myself, but either way apparently I'm sometimes in demand as hot little rubber dominatrix. So, I've known her for a long time and met her a couple times when she was in Los Angeles so I know she's a total cutie, but come on, New Hampshire? I'm not going all the way over there to sit in snow and freeze my little brown ass off. Besides, I'm really short which means I'd slide through the snow piles and never be seen again!

I've never really understood why people live in cold weather. I mean I get the idea of it, hey if you're used to it and it's all you've known then I guess it makes sense. Being a Hawaiian girl in Southern California, I just don't get it. My friend said that in her case she would love to move to a place that's warmer, at least for more of the year but she has a life where she is with friends, family and a job. Well, you can always get new friends and jobs aren't that great anyway but family is kind of irreplaceable whether you want a new one or not so I can see how you might feel a bit stuck in that case.

I just don't do well in snow with one exception. The ski resort vacation! See, if you don't have anything to do like go to work, school or whatever and you can just sit by a fire and be toasty warm and drink hot cocoa and look at the snow falling outside, see that's great! Nothing is better by the way than being in bed with a warm body (or two in my case sometimes) when it's cold and snowy outside (or on the floor in front of the fireplace fucking like animals is a good feeling too). Of course that's the only snow experience I've had anyway. In the winter I sometimes go up to Bear Mountain which is only a couple hours from Santa Monica where I live. Its kind of funny actually because it's nice and warm here and I'll drive by the beach to get on the 10 freeway to go out to Bear Mountain and in a couple of hours I'm at a ski resort covered in snow. Isn't Southern California fantastic?

I have no idea how to ski but I learned how to snowboard VERY fast. See, since I've been surfing all my life including competative surfing, the basic idea of snowboarding was very similar. It took me a little while to figure out the nuances and adjust to it but the movements and control wasn't that different so I picked it up very fast. I would go up there with my friends and spend the whole day snowboarding and by the end of the day I was tired and sore and we would spend the rest of the evening toasty warm inside and if we were really lucky, the warmth would be from enjoying each other's bodies. Of course one thing I had to get used to with snowboarding was the fact that when you fall, you hit the ground which is rather hard and it can hurt. With surfing you fall, you hit water, not so bad. Unless of course you're in shallow water and you hit coral. I've done that a bunch and cut the crap out of myself more times than I can count. I try to be careful about it but sometimes these things can't be helped.

Okey, besides the cold there was one other issue which is that this girl lives in a small town. So we've already established that I'm a warm weather girl, but I'm also a big city girl too. I think that's why I love living in Los Angeles so much. So many options, lots to do and since I love fetish and bondage so much, there's always options for that too. It may sound wierd for me to say I'm a big city girl since I didn't grow up in a big city. Let's face it, the entire state of Hawaii only has a little over a million people which is the size of a small to medium sized city on the mainland. 90% of that population by the way is on Oahu which is where Honolulu is. I grew up on Maui which already has a pretty small population and when you take out the haoles who own houses there but are only there part time in the year and the tourists, there really aren't that many residents. I'm from a small town called Wailuku which is kind of near Kahului which is where the main airport is for the island. These towns by the way are on the opposite side of the island as most of the big tourist resorts and areas like Lahaina. So maybe that's the other thing, growing up in such a small town it was hard for me to do anything sexual or fetish like because everyone heard everything all the time. All you needed was for one person to catch you doing anything wrong or wierd and the news would get around faster than if I had simply taken out a billboard of a size visible from space! I like that in Los Angeles, no one really cares. There's so many freaks and weirdos here, some in a good way and some not, that if you want to walk down the street wearing a rubber catsuit, it doesn't matter. It's not like my grandma is going to find out or anything. Of course being Los Angeles, it might be a little warm to wear that on a regular basis and besides, it doesn't really rain here very often anyway. Still, I'm sure I can find a lot of other ways to be the sexy little fetish bitch that I am without having to live in cold, wet or snowy weather, but that doesn't mean I can't come for visit, right?