Unreliable People Suck!

First I wanted to thank the people who had thoughts about my ethical dilemma. It sounds like the steps I took are probably the right ones and I've done what I could to get the watch back to its rightful owner so now I guess I'll just wait and see what happens.

Anyway, I consider myself to be a pretty reliable person. It's true that I may be a naughty little fuck toy slut and yet I do have a very high sense of ethics. Hopefully you got that impression from my little watch dilemma but part of being ethical and having integrity I think is also being reliable. To me that means if I say I'm going to do something then I do it and if I don't think I can do it then I won't agree to it. Sure there are times when you try to do something but find out you just aren't capable or unexpected things come up and in those cases I'm pretty courteous about it and I let the person know what's going on so they can be informed about where things are at and can help figure out a reasonable solution that they feel comfortable with.

Since I'm so reliable and courteous and stuff when it comes to doing things for people and doing what I say I will, I guess I kind of expect that sort of treatment in return as well. Unfortunately as we all know, it doesn't always work out that way. Today was a good example of that. I asked a guy who will remain nameless to do a big favor for me. I'm not going to go into detail about the favor but it would have required an hour of his time and I did as much as I could to make it fast and easy, otherwise it probably would have taken 2-3 hours. It took me a couple of hours to prepare everything for him and I made sure several times he knew when the favor had to be done by. By the way, I had to ask the same favor of a couple of other people who came through with no problem so I was very happy they were so reliable but then again, I kind of had a feeling they would be and to be honest, I had a feeling this guy wouldn't be so maybe its my own fault for not trusting my instincts.

So about a month and a half ago I sent everyone the information about how to do this favor that I'm not talking about in detail so you have no idea what I'm referring to but that's okey because you don't need to know what it is in order to get the broader point which is everyone had plenty of time to do it. The other two people found an hour in the first few weeks to take care of it. I started getting worried in mid September so I emailed the guy, and he said he'd have it to me within 10 days. 2 weeks later, I called and he said he'd have it in a couple of days. Another week goes by and still nothing so I call his office and I'm told that he went out of the country for a couple of weeks and is not in a place where he can check email/internet. Now he knew my deadline was coming up in a couple of days and yet he goes off on a trip without completing the favor and without even telling me what the deal was despite promises to the contrary. If this guy had simply told me at the beginning or even a month ago or two weeks ago or a week ago that he just couldn't do it because of everything that was going on, that's fine. But no! He didn't do that. He kept making promises and now I have like 3 days to find someone else to do this favor for me instead. Luckily I do have someone else lined up because I had a feeling this first guy would be so unreliable that I lined up a second guy and decided I would do most of the work myself.

Okey, so I know it sounds like a lot of wild rambling but the point is that I'm not upset or anything because I had a backup plan but the fact is, if I didn't then this guy would have really screwed me over and not in a good way either. If I had continued to wait on him or didn't have a backup plan I'd be running around right now like a chicken with no head and believe me, that's not a good visual image at all! So that's my rant for today that I'm just really dissapointed with people I can't rely on. Generally unreliable people are not my friends. I like to surround myself with positive people who I can count on. Sometimes I give people too much benefit of the doubt, but I guess that's because I've always come out ahead by trusting the best in a person than not. Sure, sometimes I'm dissapointed like now, but usually I think the person comes through okey. Still, it says a lot about having a backup plan, and you thought I was only good for spreading my legs and having hard cocks filling my tight holes and wet pussies pressed on my mouth. How silly! Now where did I put my dog collar and leash?