Mistress Maliia's Anal Sex Fest Revisted

I guess my last web log post was either so incredibly boring that no one could stand it or so incredibly insightful that everyone was just left speechless because there was nothing else to say about it. I have to conclude this since no one had anything to share about it. Hey, I like feedback but okey, I admit that the subject wasn't as exciting as some of the ones I've talked about in the past. Still, I liked it okey.

Speaking of subjects I've talked about in the past, a while ago I went into a whole thing about anal sex. Most of my comment was about me and anal sex and that yes of course I do enjoy it and if you want to do that on your girlfriend or wife you can probably get her to go along with it but you have to go slow, be gentle and let her know that after the first couple of times it will get more pleasurable. Which of course it does, if it didn't I wouldn't be a happy three hole girl!

I also talked about doing anal on a guy though using a strapon dildo. My observation was that generally its submissive guys or at least a guy who is taking on a submissive role who engages in being fucked in the ass by a girl. Its hard for me frankly to see a guy in a dominant role turn around to his slavegirl and say "now put on this strapon dildo and fuck me in the ass". I think because there's something inherently submissive about being the person who is getting fucked and something dominant about being the person who is doing the fucking. It doesn't just apply to anal sex either which is one possible reason why women are often thought of as submissive in general. Even if you are fucking us in our pussies, its still we're being fucked and the guy is the one doing the fucking. I'm using this logic because the strap on scenerio works the same in a lesbian sex scene. The girl who puts on the strap on and fucks her friend is taking a more dominant role (even if there's not a formal fetish or bondage scene or intention) while the girl who is being fucked is taking the more submissive role. This is all my thought on the subject and you may have a different interpretation and frankly I still haven't figured out how to reconcile the whole dominant/submissive thing when I'm bouncing up and down on top.

So that being the case, I don't see anything wrong at all with a guy who gets fucked in his ass, I'm just saying its more of a submissive thing is all. So why am I going through all this? We'll after that web log post and even recently I've gotten some messages from guys who seem to confuse the submissive aspect of anal sex by a girl with a strapon with being gay. I want to get that clear right now that being fucked in the ass by a girl with toys does not make you gay. I can see how the whole ass part would confuse you, but the fact that there's a girl involved in the process and not another guy should cue you in that its not about being gay, its more likely about taking on a submissive role and your girl taking on a more dominant role. Okey? Everyone got that? I want that clear so if I decide to turn into Mistress Bitch Maliia and put on a strap on and ride your ass like you're my naughty little puppy I don't want you to be thinking that you might be gay because you like having my dildo buried in your ass. No, I want you to be thinking what a lowly little submissive sex object you are and how lucky you are that a beautiful Asian goddess like me is in total control of your body and much you like having HER cock inside you and how much you like being HER bitch! Everyone get that? Good, now go fetish me my slippers!