If You Cum Over Me, Why Not Tell Me?

I kind of overslept today and I still feel a little sleepy so if things don't make sense then that's my excuse. Usually I get up really early because I love to go out and surf or sometimes do other things, but this past week was really busy for me and I was really tired because I went to bed really late last night so my body clock didn't wake me up on time (usually it does a great job of it) and I slept a couple hours later than I should have which not only meant that I missed my chance to go do some stuff but it also means that because I slept too long, I'm now a little sleepier than I should be which hopefully will work itself out soon. In the meantime though I thought I would just go ahead and share some thoughts while in my sleepy little mood and hopefully some of it will make sense.

I didn't get as many comments or feedback about my question from my last post which surprised me for a couple of reasons. First, given that I wrote a steamy little scene that really happened, I thought people would enjoy that (or not) and tell me so. I think I told you I love knowing when people cum over me so if you came over me and didn't tell me then that's just selfish! Also, I did ask the question because I was looking for some guidance on how to handle the issue really. The feedback I did get was very helpful though and let me see things kind of from the guy point of view on this.

Okey, as you know I love porn, really. Its great stuff. I like lesbian and bondage porn the best but I don't mind normal guy fucking girl(s) or gangbang or whatever porn. Hey, I'm open. Its just a different thing though from me watching it and a guy watching it. See, if I watch normal hetero porn, since I'm bi, I love looking at the girl but if the guy is decent looking, I love looking at him too. I get just as turned on by watching a nice hard cock as I do a beautiful wet pussy. So since I get pleasure from all of whats going on, its harder for me to see how other people might view the same video who might not see things that way. So now I have a better idea and apparently it breaks down really into two catagories with the same basic premise which is for the guys, the guy in the video isn't there. Either the guy watching is totally focused on the girl(s) and isn't interested in the guy or the guy is mentally putting himself in the position of the guy in the video so he's not seeing a guy there but rather himself. Of course this doesn't really apply to bi guys I guess who like me might get pleasure from watching any of it. The truth is though that I often will watch and picture myself in the place of the girl. I do that a lot. I think maybe its part of why I love to watch porn with Asian girls in it so much because its a lot easier for me to visualize myself taking their place than it would be if its a blonde girl with big tits. Not that I can't visualize myself in that position either, just its easier to do mentally if I'm watching an Asian girl since I'm Asian too. Does that make sense?

So that being the case for video, apparently the same philosophy works on stories and written things. I guess I should have figured this because even in stories, when they're written about me or at least an Asian girl, again I have a much better time of putting myself in that position. So I was told that for guys its the same thing as for the videos, in a story or experience or whatever with a guy and a girl, they either don't really pay attention to what the guy is doing or they read what's going on with the guy but in their mind the mental image they have is of themselves. So when I was talking about how the guy was fucking my from behind and then we did anal so he was pumping my ass until he came, well it sounds like most guys would see themselves fucking my wet pussy and tight little asshole. Is that right?

So, that being the case, based on the limited feedback I did get, it sounds like not only wouldn't there really be a problem with hearing about my hetero sexual adventures (whether fetish or vanilla or whatever) but that a lot of people might actually enjoy that. Of course I'll keep talking about things I'm doing that are more fetish, bondage or lesbian too because I always have fun with those things, and I'll keep sharing my thoughts on different things both sexual and sometimes non-sexual too. Hey, I'm a multi-faceted girl.

Anyway, there's lots of exciting things coming up that I'm going to share with you and I think I'm going to have some new video and photo sets to share as well so I'm pretty excited about that. So have a very naughty weekend and if you happen to find yourself cumming over me, don't be shy about telling me!