Hawaiian Goddesses are Talking to Me Again
I sometimes get feedback from two kinds of people. Those who say what they think I might want to hear and those who say their opinion, good or bad, without regard for whether or not you're going to like it. Obviously if the opinion is unsolicited then it can often be unwelcome, after all, opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. Still, if you asked for an opinion and someone gives it to you, then its always good to keep it in mind. I'm not saying that one person's opinion is necessarily right or wrong, just something to consider.
A good example is my little web log here. I know I can get a little wordy and babbly sometimes and it seems like I have trouble getting to the point and being as succinct as possible. I get that. Still, a lot of people said they liked reading my thoughts and enjoyed them and were okey with the format and the writing style. So naturally that made me feel good and I'm willing to assume that they told me their honest opinion because that's how they really felt. What I thought was odd though was no one was particularly critical of what I was doing. I think a lot of people maybe don't like giving or especially receiving critisism, but I'm trying to be one of those people who sees it as an opportunity to improve. So with that in mind, I finally got a very short an succinct note (I guess to emphasize the point) that said "Your posts are too long. Be clear and succinct. Humble suggestion". It was nice and respectful and I'm not saying the person is right or wrong, after all, maybe that person doesn't like reading long posts, but maybe most other people do. See, even though I like for everyone to have a good time and enjoy themselves, I have to go with what is going to work best for most people as it relates to what works best for me. Does that make any sense or am I babbling again?
Anyway, last night I had a lava dream. I have these sometimes and usually its lava flowing here or there and doing its thing. Some people might be afraid of lava or even see a lava dream as a bad thing but I've always welcomed them because it reminds me of my home in Hawaii. Granted there's no live flows on Maui (though lots of fun volcanic stuff to play with and if you go to the top of Haleakala, its like another planet) but I've spent enough time around the flows from Kilauea for them to feel like a part of what constitutes home for me. Besides, the flows are really a part of Hawaiian culture anyway. I've always kind of seen it as Pele (the goddess, not the soccer player) telling me that I've been away too long and its time to come back for a visit. You know its very important to give Pele good respect too. A nice gift for her goes a long way. Many people leave alcohol around the flows but my family always went for food figuring that if she's drinking that much, she should probably eat something too. So we would leave pipikaula which is kind of like beef jerky, Manapua which is like a bun filled with barbeque and so ono (delicious) and some other treats too. Sound wierd? Well we all have our little cultural things I guess.
Anyway, so the point was just that I had the dream and while its not as exciting for you maybe as one of my sex dreams, which I always look forward to and even though I'm convinced that I have those once a night too (because my mind is always on sex, awake or asleep) I don't always remember the dreams which is too bad. I just love it though when I wake up and a sex dream, especially a bondage sex dream, is still fresh in my head and I start to play with myself and I make myself cum just laying there in bed. It can be interesting if there's someone else in bed with me though and they get confused about what I'm doing, but hey, there's enough of me to go around, no problem right?
2 Comments:
I love the free-form quality of your 'babblings.' In the more recent ones there are far fewer typos and yet don't seem to be edited.
It's as if you're just typing out a letter to a friend (or several hundred friends).
Don't change a thing. If they don't want to read it all the way through all it takes is a click to move on.
xoxoD/s
Oh, even at your tiny size there's enough to go around; there's no need to be greedy (wink).
Dreams can be healthy regardless of their nature. I speak for myself when I say I get them because I think I'm trying to subconsciously tell myself something. The Lava Dreams can be just a little reminder of where you came from, about family, even if you think you don't need it.
As for your wet dreams, I do have a theory: it means you're not being tended to enough (kinky wink). (Gets goofy with the voice) Someone needs a good talking to, needs to be reminded what a sloppy wet little rubber slut she is. (laughs)
About your posts lenghts: I for one don't have a problem. Like me I think you really just want to get your point across or describe exactly (or close to it) how you perceive something or tell us something. Many various bloggers of various topics I go to run into this and they'll be the first to tell you that you're not alone.
That is the draw back of written word: we can't hear the voice and see the face and note the other bodily expressions that go with the words. Even though you're doing a good job, Maliia, its just one of those things you, I, and other folks that post have a hard time getting over. So, it does force us to write more than we would normal speak in communication: something that would normally take me one or two sentences to explain requires a five sentence paragraph in writing.
Again, you are doing a pretty good job. Do what makes you feel comfortable. Isn't that how we should all live our lives, even in the fetish world?
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