I'm Actually Talking About Anal Sex Today

First I wanted to thank everyone who weighed in on my Lana Lang question. I got a lot of great responses including some in the comments section of my web log here. It seemed like generally people assigned to her the role that they wanted her to be. So submissives generally told me that they viewed her as being dominant and dominants viewed her as being submissive. I got some fantastic mental images from people who included such scenes as her dressed in rubber bondage gear with me (or them) on a leash, and Lana as a harnessed ponygirl. The idea of course was an exploration on the character and not so much a focus on the actress. I'm not like an obsessed stalker type. I've had a few of those chasing after me and believe me, it's definately not fun. This was more about looking at a fictional character personified by an actress from a fantasy point of view. I think we came up with some really great ideas too.

In the end I realized that the reason I couldn't make up my mind about her is because I am more and more comfortable switching roles. I would be just as happy to be on her leash as I would to have her on mine. So I guess like everyone else, I was looking at her from the way I wanted her to be as well, but since I could go either way I was sitting on the fence. A few people did a good analysis supporting both sides. One argument was that she was obviously submissive since most of the time she's helpless and needs saving, she continually throws herself at a man who treats her poorly (emotionally) driving her into the arms of an evil guy and there was other evidence too. On the other hand I became convinced that although the character probably is more submissive in that role, she is far more interesting as a dominant. In the episodes in which she is assertive, sexually confident and sometimes downright evil or possessed, she is definately a lot more exciting than when she's helpless and its from that perspective that I finally decided that I wanted for her to be a Mistress (which I thought she almost was in the episode in which she was an evil sorority girl). Of course this doesn't preclude the idea that she could be forced to submit (like to Lex) or that she wouldn't dominate others (like Clark, after all, revenge can be sweet). So now that I have some great ideas...maybe its time to write a new story. Perhaps you would like to help me with this one. I'm thinking of setting up an interactive story link so that we can all work on this together and make it a group project if there's an interest. The other interesting thing someone sent me was one of these photoshop pictures of her as a dominatrix. I may have to find a way to share it with you without getting myself in trouble for copyright or whatever and I think I have some ideas on how to do it (like through the forum or something might work), but if you have seen anything else like that, please feel free to share okey?

Anyway, if you have any other thoughts on Lana or other T.V. characters that get you hot and horny, please share them with me okey? I still think this is a cool topic.

So that brings us to the next thing I wanted to talk about. I told you before I was going to talk about anal sex but then I got distracted and I almost got distracted this time too except I promised I would talk about anal sex this time so here we are. For the record, just because I talk about something like this now, doesn't mean I won't come back and talk about it again in the future, it really just depends on whether or not I have anything new to say about it, which I probably will. Make sense? Great!

Personally, I love being a three hole girl. Just saying that makes me sound like a total whore doesn't it? But it's true. Not just because of how it makes me sound, but also, I truly love anal sex. I do get a lot of pleasure from it. Granted its a lot harder for me to cum from anal sex, but especially if I'm being done from behind in my ass an I can play with my clit at the same time, that pretty much does it. Of course as I've said before, I tend to orgasm extremely easily which is good for me usually but can be bad if I've been ordered not to cum. Then it's a nightmare trying to control that.

A lot of girls either refuse to have anal sex or are afraid of it. I think most are afraid of it because it does hurt the first couple of times and honestly, if it's not done right it can be a very unpleasant experience. If you're with a girl who is new to it, you really have to go slow, use lots and lots of lube and reassure her all the way. If you have a big cock, you might want to try easing her into things by letting her experience a smaller plug or dildo a few times. The thing about anal sex is that after a couple of times, when you start to get used to it, it's not painful anymore. Really it's not that different in that respect from vaginal sex. For most girls, the first time or two they have intercourse isn't as much pleasure as it is uncomfortable or even unpleasant depending. Of course that doesn't stop them from doing it. They keep trying because it seems natural and sure enough after a couple of times it starts to become a lot of fun. Since to a lot of people anal sex seems unnatural, they either don't try at all, or they aren't willing to work through those first couple of times to where they can take something in their ass and enjoy it.

So its true I do love to use all my holes and to have all my holes used. It also plays very nicely into my gangbang fantasy which may or may not come true one day (or maybe I'm just a perverted girl who watches way too much porn). So far I've been talking about girls and anal sex and while a lot of you dominant guys won't care about hearing this next part, I think the submissive ones will. Hey sub guys...this applies to you too! Of course the advantage you have is that if I were to put on a strap on and use it on your ass, we can select a dildo size that you'll be comfortable with and because I've very familiar with what it feels like to have a dildo or cock in my ass, I know how to do it so that won't be too unpleasant. Still though, the first couple of times for you will probably hurt a little as well, but once you get past that, I think you might find having your ass filled with a strapon from me (or another girl you might like) can be very pleasurable for you. I don't judge people and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. People like what they like and as long as its all consensual and safe, why not? I'm no doctor, so if you are one maybe you can confirm or deny this, but I have heard that its possible for a guy to cum from anal sex (or maybe I just saw that in a movie). See, so that's even more reason to want for a dominant girl or even a switch like me to do that to you. Don't worry girls, I'm happy to strapon a dildo for you too, or if you prefer, you can use it on any of my holes. As I said before, three holes...no waiting! Actually, from a bondage point of view its a crime that my holes should ever be empty, don't you think? When not in use my mouth should always be gagged, my ass plugged and my pussy filled with a nice dildo or vibrator, strapped in place and held with locks so I can't remove them. Delicious huh?

So if you have any thoughts on anal sex whether you're a guy or a girl or you want to try it or get your girlfriend/ boyfriend to try it, share whats up either in the forum section or add a comment if you have any experience or whatever on this okey?