Maliia the trouble maker gets the boot again

I'm back from being all tied up. Yes there was bondage fun involved for some of it and I think I will probably post a message about some of that experience in the forums section later. I have lots of email and other stuff backed up so I'm hoping to get hrough that today. I already took a quick look through my email box and tried to filter out the spam. No I'm not interested in a penis enlargement (though I'm not opposed to enjoying a penis from time to time) nor do I want a fake Rolex, refinance mortgage deal, diet supplements or millions of dollars from a Nigerian dictator. I keep getting all of this spam though and as annoying as it is, I have to think that someone, somewhere is actually buying this stuff. If they didn't, the spam would stop because it wouldn't be profitable.

Once I cleaned up my inbox a little bit I had a very disturbing notification from the people at Myspace. A few weeks ago I worked really hard to put together a very cool Myspace profile. I thought it would be a great way not only to get involved with another community but also it could help me build up my own little community here at my webcage. It worked pretty well and not only did I have a great time but a lot of people found the webcage by enjoying my profile at Myspace. This brings us to the disturbing notification which was that my profile was deleted with no appeal and no hope for retrieval supposedly because of one of several reasons. As I read through the list, I couldn't find anything I really did wrong although the photos I posted could have been seen as sexual in nature in that they showed me in some really sexy fetish outfits, fishnets, etc, there wasn't any nudity at all. That's the only thing I thought it could be other than perhaps some of the language I used in my profile (maybe they aren't too fond of people talking about the fun stuff between their legs, I don't know).

Anyway, the whole experience, though frustrating, reminded me of how my little webcage came to exist in the first place. A few years ago I was on America Online. One day I realized that they gave free space for members to setup a homepage and some tools to make it easy to figure out. I knew nothing about webpages at all, but I thought hey, the space is there, why not? So I setup a one page thing that was really tame. It had I think one very normal photo of me and in the page I talked about fetish and bondage of course but it was all totally tame. Nothing graphic or even detailed, just a nice intelligent discussion of some of the things that were interesting to me. I worked pretty hard on it too, but a week or two later, AOL deleted it saying it was inappropriate. This really wasn't that risque though, I've seen wilder stuff on network t.v. during prime time.

So I didn't want to go through the trouble of dealing with them anymore. Clearly any discussion that is even remotely fun would get banned so next I thought I would try Geocities. They had free webspace and I had so much fun doing the first one, I figured I could try again. Unfortunately their web tools were a little more complicated and it took me two weeks to figure out how to do just one page. I was just totally slogging through html, trying to figure out how different changes in code changed the page, but eventually not only did I again have a one page site up, but I had an idea about how html worked too. Again it wasn't a risque page, just two or three photos of me and a very tame, non-graphic discussion of some bondage and fetish things. You can probably see where this is going, sure enough in a couple of weeks, that one got banned too. Well I was pretty tired of working so hard to build something so simple and unoffensive and I decided that I wasn't going to go through that again. So, armed with a little html knowledge I registered my domain name, maliia.com, and figured I would go in the other direction and make my site as graphic and wild as I wanted it to be.

It turned out to be a good move and I think a lot of people have enjoyed my little webcage since then. It's definately grown a lot from that one page site from before and its certainly a lot more fun too, both here in the open area and of course in the protected area too with all of the thousands of photos and original stories. I never could have done all of this with AOL or Geocities so I guess that what happened was for the best.

So that's the story of how the webcage came to exist, but when I got kicked off of Myspace despite again, having a very tame profile with fairly tame pictures, it reminded me of those early issues. Unlike before though, I actually grew a brain this time and had a copy of exactly how my profile was setup before so luckily, it only takes a few minutes to set it up again. I will probably try to be a little more careful about wording or photos over there just in case, but it was just annoying more than anything, not for myself but for all of the great people who were finding this cool webcage through it. There are also other great communities that are more open minded and certainly more accepting of bondage and fetish, so if you know of those, please drop me a note so I can go check them out and maybe setup a profile there.

Also, I wanted to thank you for all of the great thoughts and comments about my last post. I thought that the talk about collars would be a lot of fun and it was! I have more fun things I really want to talk about, I just have to get to it but stuff keeps coming up that I also want to share and talk about so there you go. Anyway, I hope you will get involved with the forum section if you haven't already and be sure to enjoy the featured photo and story which I'm trying to change out every few days.